Tuesday, January 31, 2017

Self At Home

I grew up and still currently reside in Linden, NJ. If you don’t know where that is, I’ll give you a few clues. It’s considered a city that is filled with political corruption. The bomber that bombed NY and NJ back in September was captured in Linden, just two blocks away from my best friends house. And while the reality of this world terrifies me, I’m glad that it has made it easier to describe where I live.
            Growing up in Linden has taught me a boatload of things. From the moment I entered elementary school until the moment I left high school, all I knew was diversity. I was fortunate enough to attend diverse public schools. It was there that I personally began to truly understand tolerance and equality.
            As young students we were encouraged to participate and learn in other cultural traditions, to help us better understand our classmates and teachers. In high school (I feel so old saying that), the minorities were the majorities and vica versa. It was an amazing, once-in-a-life time experience, which I don’t think I will ever be able to experience again. Everyday I learned about different religions and cultures first hand from my friends, peers and teachers. My French teacher was born and raised in France, which made taking her class that much more of a cultural experience.
            My views and experiences became global and its made me feel culturally diverse. I believe the one thing I lack is visiting all the places and cultures that I have learned about and second-handedly experienced. And while Linden and it’s school system is not the best, the friends I’ve made and the countless life lessons I’ve learned just form being ‘home’ has molded me into the person I am today.
            On that note, I still reside in Linden, but I like to joke around that I reside at Rutgers as well; because of the amount of time I spend on campus and commuting. Rutgers is praised to be one of the most diverse Universities in the United States and I am glad to go to a diverse school, but most of all I am proud to go to a revolutionary one.
            I love history and being at Rutgers, I feel like I am apart of history. Since being at Rutgers, I attended my 1st protest within the first semester of my freshman year at Rutgers. Rutgers, I believe, is in the process of teaching me some new life lessons, as my partial new home.

            In the end, home is any place in the world, as long as, the people you treasure the most are along for the ride.

3 comments:

  1. Rutgers is a very diverse university. It seems like there is always something going on down easton ave. Which is why I am excited to move in with a couple of friends that live on Easton. I've lived at home my whole college career and I am really looking forward to a change and a new experience.

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  2. Wow, I went through a very diverse school system too! I'm from Union township, if you know where that is. I've taken the train to Linden before to visit a friend, you're not that far away! Haha I actually used to joke with the people in my dorm freshman year that Rutgers doesn't seem that diverse to me because of where I am from. But hey, I bet you had an easy time writing your application essay for Rutgers (assuming you also had to write about diversity). Regardless, I must say I'm quite jealous that you got to be part of a protest here. I always have class or work when the history is going down. Congrats though!

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  3. This is awesome, I really do agree with you in the sense of home is wherever your treasured people are. I wrote about that in my blog. Being here at Rutgers has forced me to grow as an individual and home is now wherever I am almost because I can surround myself with people that make me comfortable, and treat me as my family does.

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